hey guys, let my start with a golden thought
when your nails are
freshly painted and you need to scratch your head without messing them
up you can use a pen and literally write something on your head. it will
be completely invisible as your hair is covering it up - genius (well
not if you're bold)
lets move on
a couple days ago i watched this video by matthew hussey on the new years coming and actually it was one of his most honest and in-manipulative videos and i will explain why in a bit.
so heres the video, you can watch it if you like although its kinda lengthy (i dont think i watched the entire thing, sorry matt)
anyways, the important thing he pointed out is just to stop for a bit, find the time you have nothing on your mind and just stroll through your memories. we tend to forget so fucking much out of our lives, and its good to live in the moment, but here is this one time when you can look at the past spin of our planet and clearly see the direction you're going. remember about the past yet dont let it bring you down, because we're all heading somewhere through the good and the bad.
what i actually did is i made myself a nice bath and went through all of my photos on my phone not only seeing whats on the photo, but trying to remember and feel the situation. after all - i was there duuh. i can recommend that to anyone. especially when, like me, you have the tendency to forget and take for granted all the good stuff happening to you.
now for matthew hussey. hes an epic life winner but also the one who sold his soul to the devil. for starters, hes basically a guy who tells women how to pick up man, how to act while theyre around and maybe some other aspects of life. now about the women part - hes trying to encourage men to watch him, of course that doesnt happen (what kind of man would watch him right) and he knows that, after all - that would be a suicide for him when all the men would start telling him hes wrong. and not saying he is. matthew has a very put together thinking plan and to be honest - it covers up mine surprisingly well. but what he doesnt seem to get is that his information sometimes can be a little straight forward, informative yes but usually not a good learning material. see, the world is extremely flexible and waayy more different than we often imagine it to be. sure he might give you clues and the angle you should look at things (which is crucial btw) but he wont turn coal into a diamond by giving the concrete behavior for concrete situations, thats just dumb.
matthew also sold his soul to the devil. a couple of his videos are basically fakes as the title is not espanded in the video. it contains him "letting us know" that the answers to this topic are on his website and is usually something you have to pay for. whats more he has these seminars, to which thousands of desperate women (sounds like every guys dream right?) come to help their love life and look for the answer to "why an i single?". just a whole misunderstanding, you're single because you p a i d and came to this stupid seminar instead of living your life. theres no 'stopping and thinking' point in life and matthew is too smart not to know this. he's just choosing not to share this information.
with every video, he pulls off this show, for example he once while talking about something else "mentioned by accident" that theres some special guest coming to his seminar but hes not sure if he can say their name cause it might be a secret (oh poor and loyal matt), anyways he figured that he might say it now and beep it out if it comes out wrong while editing. so he did beep it out and there wasnt a name there - he said the word "anyone" , someone from the comments realized that. and honestly, theres a lot of this kinda manipulative shit going on which i hate him for doing.
of course im not saying he has never helped any woman (obviously theres a lot he has), but the way he acts as if he was so damn truthful and caring is awful. you need to put an end to this matt, or you will stop at some point in your carrier. people have eyes.
now don't get me wrong, i do watch him and im sure he's a sweet guy, his videos are often inspiring and well made, yet don't always take him too seriously and have some critique.
gosh this one turned into a matthew hussey post haha
THE POINT OF ABOVE IS haha i went through the photos and recided to list out some of the most important stuff that happened this year for me and i'll probably make a post out of it in the near future.
i wanted to take a moment and talk about a book i read recently. i got it from a near friend in september haha and finished reading it this month which is a great achievement cause im the slowest reader ever and the thing thats usually keeps me going is the library deadline ... anyways, its one of the coolest books ever i think anyone would love it. the title is "The Idle Traveller" and its well written by Dan Kieran and its basically about spontaneous traveling, if you really think about it the traveling implies to living in general. it contains lots of these general truths you have to remember about during your life choices, some amazingly inspiring real life stories and as odd as it sounds, hope. you know, just this kind of hope you get after watching a great movie or tv series, that we still have a great future and don't really know how many fantastic things (like the ones we heard about) are ahead of us.
so what they did in poland, they actually made a 10 or sth series of somehow inspiring books and put it all together in this graphically awesome series
neat right ?
well i'll end this post with some bitter-sweet news, there is a train line building near to the place i live and a path leading through a forest actually turned into this:
majestic though
and then there's some cool wall art. and seriously i was uber surprised to see a message like this written in english somewhere in da hood
thats it for today, enjoy your holidays people ;)
